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Sometimes you just have to shut up

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Broden Johnson

Broden Johnson is the kind of guy who’s been through the wringer and come out the other side with wisdom to share. He made his first million at 21 and lost it at 22—only to rebuild his life by starting and investing in several successful businesses. As a father, husband, entrepreneur, and philosopher, Broden’s experiences have shaped his no-nonsense approach to life. Subscribe and join over 100,000+ followers, readers & listeners!

In a world full of noise, silence is a rare superpower.

From social media chatter to endless conversations, we’re conditioned to fill every pause, every moment, with words or distractions. Awkward silences are the enemy, and many of us will say anything to avoid them. But here’s the truth: silence isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom.

Silence isn’t just the absence of noise—it’s the presence of thought, reflection, and clarity. It’s where we find answers we can’t speak but need to feel. It’s where we make space for deeper understanding and meaningful connection.

Marcus Aurelius understood this. Despite ruling as one of the most powerful men in history, he often withdrew into moments of quiet reflection. In Meditations, he wrote, “The nearer a man comes to a calm mind, the closer he is to strength.” Marcus knew that silence wasn’t about avoiding the world—it was about preparing to engage with it more purposefully.

Seneca also saw silence as strength. He believed many of life’s conflicts stem from speaking too quickly or saying too much. “We have two ears and one mouth,” he said, “so we should listen more than we say.” Silence, for Seneca, wasn’t just about hearing others—it was about listening to ourselves.

But silence isn’t only for philosophers and ancient rulers.

Think of people like Nelson Mandela, who spent 27 years in prison and used those silent years to reflect, prepare, and strengthen his resolve. Or Chris Rosati, who quietly started the “Butterfly Effect” project, spreading kindness not for recognition but because it was the right thing to do.

Silence gives us the space to listen, to connect, and to act with intention.

When we’re quiet, we allow others to be heard. Oprah Winfrey built her career on this—asking thoughtful questions and creating space for people to share their truths. Listening, like silence, is a gift. It’s love in action.

Silence also lets us hear ourselves. It’s in those quiet moments that we can step back, ask tough questions, and realign with what truly matters. Are you living your values? Are you acting with integrity? What needs to change?

Lao Tzu said it best: “Silence is a source of great strength.” Silence isn’t about doing nothing—it’s about doing the right things.

In a world obsessed with talking, shouting, and rushing to be heard, let’s remember the power of pause. The wisdom to act, the clarity to think, and the strength to endure often come in the quietest moments.

Reflection: When’s the last time you embraced silence instead of filling it? What would change if you practiced listening more, speaking less, and reflecting deeply?

Hit reply and let me know. Or share this with someone who could use a little more quiet in their life.

Until next time,

Broden Johnson

PS: Silence isn’t just a pause—it’s the space where wisdom grows.

Broden Johnson

Broden Johnson is the kind of guy who’s been through the wringer and come out the other side with wisdom to share. He made his first million at 21 and lost it at 22—only to rebuild his life by starting and investing in several successful businesses. As a father, husband, entrepreneur, and philosopher, Broden’s experiences have shaped his no-nonsense approach to life. Subscribe and join over 100,000+ followers, readers & listeners!